36 Questions That Make Strangers Fall In Love (The LAB)

36 Questions That Make Strangers Fall In Love (The LAB)

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Set I

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?

3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?

5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.

9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.

12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

Set II

13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?

15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

16. What do you value most in a friendship?

17. What is your most treasured memory?

18. What is your most terrible memory?

19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?

20. What does friendship mean to you?

21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?

22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.

23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?

24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?


25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling … “

26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share … “

27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.

28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.

29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.

30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.

32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?

34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

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20 Responses

  1. General Grizzy says:

    I thought it was Grace and Chester in the thumbnail

  2. TheNerffreak11 says:

    I asked someone to do this experiment with me. I got slapped in the face.
    Rt if u crie everytiem

  3. Jacoby Wieber says:

    I figured out a new party trick

  4. Sam Spinda says:

    I was like wtf hahaha so cool

  5. Groovy Unicorn says:


  6. Animalovr1 says:

    I ship it

  7. Captain Capellini says:

    Wasn’t this on The Big Bang Theory?

  8. Techno sailor says:

    Oh my god i love shit like this 😊

  9. Samuel Gonzalez says:

    I feel like the ASAPScience guys never took a Psychology class in high

  10. Ricky Rick says:

    I knew about these questions for some time now and wanted to try it with
    someone. Now I got a girlfriend (but not through these questions, lol), but
    good luck to anyone that tries this and is hoping for a “spark” :P

  11. canttouchdylan says:

    After reading all 36 questions, I’m interested to know – how long did this
    whole process take?

  12. AznPride says:

    Wow, it’s like magic.

  13. Flexibo YSGM says:

    I ship them before even watching this bideo

  14. Vincent Marduk says:

    This is like that pich up artist shit but more long…?

  15. Suley D says:

    3:03 the moment he fell in love

  16. Hazelcut says:

    Try this with ugly people.

  17. Megan Yarnall says:

    lol 0 hesitating in that kiss

  18. LaurenLife says:

    This is so wierd.

  19. xxxGuitarHeroAcexxx says:

    “I like your face”

  20. Croo ookie says:

    She said “Jesus” when they asked them to kiss lol I meaaannn, I can make
    alot of girls fall in love with me when you force her to!