I’m A Tomboy, And No One Wants To Date Me

I’m A Tomboy, And No One Wants To Date Me

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This is Jo. Actually, her name is Josephine, but you wouldn’t be able to imagine a person less suitable to be called Josephine. She’s a tomboy, and she’s proud of it. However, life as a tomboy is not as amusing as you might imagine. She’s faced a lot of problems, and she wants to tell you about them.

Jo had trouble communicating with other girls right from her early childhood. She remembers one time when a large group of children had gathered in one place for a party or something, and her mom gently pushed her towards the other girls and said, “go play with the dolls, make friends with someone!” She diligently started moving dolls here and there and listening to boring talk about girly problems, but all the while she kept looking at the boys, who were playing something thrilling, laughing and doing their boyish stuff. She was so envious that at some point she just silently stood up and joined them. That was the moment when the fun started for her.

Things didn’t improve as the years went by. Jo was always attracted to the world of boys, and all of her friends were boys as well. She felt at ease when she talked to them, and felt that she understood their problems and their way of thinking better. Whereas when she was around girls, she was totally clueless. Their problems were hard for her to follow, especially when they complained about boys.

Jo had to adapt her looks to her lifestyle as well. When she went out with her friends, they always did something active, like skateboarding or exploring abandoned buildings or climbing trees. For these kinds of things, you need to dress in a practical way. She found out that jeans and hoodies are much more comfortable in this respect than typical girls’ clothes, which she had always hated in any case. And that is how she has dressed her whole life. For Jo, it was always a tragedy when they made some formal visit and she needed to dress “properly”, as people would call it. A cute dress, shiny shoes, a neat hairdo… ugh. As you can probably imagine, phrases like “wear skirts, be more feminine, you’re a girl” were the things she kept hearing time and again, until at one point her parents just gave up.

It wasn’t that Jo felt she was ugly or anything, and that being a tomboy was her way of gaining confidence. She actually thinks she’s quite cute, and when she’s forced to be a girly girl she looks no worse than her peers. For her, being a tomboy is a lifestyle, and she’s happy with that. The problem was that some time ago, she’d noticed that her friends had started dating.

One of the things that people were often mistaken about was the belief that because Jo was a tomboy, she must be gay. But she’s actually attracted to boys, not girls. Ironically, she actually gets a lot of backtalking from girls who say that she’s just trying to get attention from all the boys around her. She’s never taken this seriously, because she’s never had THAT kind of attention from the boys. Which is actually the core of her problem.

Yes, she’s seeking her first romance. She has lots of boys around her. So what’s the problem, you might ask. The problem is that they don’t really see her as a girl! They know she’s a girl, of course, but they don’t want to date her, because who would date a bro? Once, there was a boy she liked, and she thought it would be wise to approach him and ask if he wanted to go out with her. And guess what – he just laughed at her! He wasn’t mean or anything, it was more something like “Sorry bro, I don’t see you as a GIRL”. Seeing the look on her face, he corrected himself: “I mean, THAT kind of a girl”. Oh thanks, now that’s much better!

This was the first time when being a tomboy had a negative effect on her life. She even tried to put on make up and a dress, but felt really weird and the boys just looked at her strange as well. She gave up and lost hope. It seemed like it was a price that she had to pay to keep the comfortable and amusing life of a tomboy. She became a bit melancholic looking at all those happy couples, and felt that something was missing from her life for the first time.

One day she was invited out to go skateboarding, but she wasn’t in the mood so she just sat there, watching her friends and thinking her sad thoughts. One of her oldest friends soon came over to sit with her and asked why she was so sad. She didn’t want to lie, so she explained everything as it really was – that no one wanted to date her because no one considered her a potential girlfriend. “Don’t cry”, he said, “I’ll go on a date with you!” She refused out self-respect. “I don’t need charity”, she said. Suddenly, he became very serious and said that he really wanted to. And so she accepted. Accidentally, she had made the same mistake all her friends had made with her – she hadn’t considered his feelings, because you don’t go on dates with buddies. Well, she was mistaken.

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  2. Galaxy Pug chickens says:

    I can relate kind of bcuz I’m a girly guy and a lot of my classmates thought that I was in guys but I’m not :3

    • FURIOUS FIRE X says:

      +Jah at this point in the series I identify her as a she I just can’t accept that haku is a guy

    • Olivia :3 says:

      +lil tactical Your rude. Being gay is okay.

    • Jojo is Cool Izaya deserves death says:

      +Jah you just wasted more energy, and I’m wasting energy right now

    • Bayonetta says:

      +Mahmoud Shatnawi
      Not all men have hair on their body. And their voice isn’t scary you sexist. And having a dick doesn’t affect your personality or actions at all.

    • Sick Hea_rt says:

      I bet you are really cute 💜 i hope you will find your girlfriend someday . And im not gonna lie , i never heard a guy have a same situation like this . And in not gonna lie , if you have a girlfriend i bet she will be so lucky , cause you will know some of the girly thing which is really useful in a relationship .

  3. Maia Kittow says:

    * story booth has left the chat *

  4. Kittycutie says:

    In the middle? Yea I’m in the middle, I do think theres no difference and no line, just normal people who want to be themselves. But you’re story is bittersweet, but good for you!

  5. puffle TM says:

    ..
    I’m girly but also boyish, but screw it. It’s my personality mix! Anyone can play any role, any genders can do anything, as long as they enjoy in it and fit in well with it, well, not crimes though. We can enjoy anything as long as were comfortable with it, just show everyone your own colors.

    • Akira Alexis Soyra says:

      😏

    • iiVortex2ii says:

      Hey you’re not the 0nly one but there’s tons of them out there!

    • AesthxticNachos says:

      puffle TM same here

    • FrizzBall says:

      I Like the way you think 😉

    • Ayam Mee says:

      Boyish, girlish, that’s just something society creates to generalise people or for marketing purposes. There shouldn’t be a thing such as girlish or boyish, I mean I hope as we progress further in the future this common stereotypes will be demolish in all nation. Imagine if people describe you as blackish if you listen to rap songs and use words like ain’t, that’s how I see it when people say someone isn’t girlish enough. Although I do hope there would be a word for someone girlish and boyish that isn’t based on a gender because some men like me will prefer more feminine women but don’t like to stereotype it as if all women should have femininity.

  6. Blue Phone says:

    She reminded me of P!nk lol

  7. Gacha. Love COOKIES & PANCAKES. says:

    I’m a tomboy and my friends think it’s weird

  8. stupid Gal says:

    I am ugly that’s why my boyfriend cheated on me I am waiting for that day when he will come back and I will reject him😢

    • stupid Gal says:

      +Jasmine Alejo 😂hard to believe but true😢💙

    • stupid Gal says:

      +Drambo Doy what?

    • stupid Gal says:

      +The man With a plan truely waiting to give him double hurt

    • The man With a plan says:

      +stupid Gal well im gonna tell you straight.your better off just moving on. i am in the same situation you are in. my ex girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago because her depression was causing her to be unhappy or she lied to me ,but yea i was really sad for a few days but then i meet someone really cool that im might try dating soon. so trust me when i say its better off to just move on, you will be so much happier

    • TBF L says:

      Looks don’t matter is if there nice or not in sorry for your lost 😓

  9. ClimaxClaw123 says:

    Waiting for YouTube (Uhh, I mean, people) to put this on trending

  10. Lify Cat says:

    Im a tomboy too, and i don’t really like wearing dresses or that girly stuff either, but my best friend, (Lunicorn is what i call her😂) is that kind of girl that really cares about what shes gonna wear and hates holes in jeans, but i still love her as my best friend☺ she’s funny and kind so thats what i like about her😊

  11. Charlene Baes says:

    im a nerd and a hipster, so no one wants to date me. but who cares?! my goal is to just watch movies and eat, live my life to the fullest than dating!! btw, i love harry potter, who doesn’t?! i also have a big crush on edward cullen, well who doesn’t?!

  12. Savage Sam and the kid gamers says:

    My life story even tho I’m 11

  13. scarlet Elissa says:

    Me im kinda boyish and at school one of the uniforms are dresses and i hated them soo i liked the other uniform it was a shirt and jeans with a jacket and i loved it but yet i have to wear the dress:-

  14. Greeny boiii says:

    I have friend and hes a tomboy
    Her name is aya

  15. Kaylee Payne says:

    Every like I will add a 💎
    I’ll start
    💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎

  16. jjumper 256 says:

    tomb boy girls are best girls. especially gamer ones.
    FIGHT ME! you wont.

  17. Teen Kingzz says:

    I’m a tomboy hit like if you are a tomboy 🙌👍💪💙

  18. Sanayaima Kshetrimayum says:

    me too, I am also a lesbian but I like only girls I want to have a girlfriend but not boyfriend and that’s my problem.😟😟

  19. Elemental Neko says:

    If i was a guy or les id date chu ;-;

  20. Anna Mačuļaviča says:

    Hau you dres wen you go swim ? Lol 😂

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